When's the right age for sex?

Firstly I actually don't like using the word 'sex', I much prefer to use the term of 'make love'. What's the difference between sex and make love? Both of them actually means sexual intercourse anyway. Make love sounds more polite and usually between a couple. Not just any random Tom, Dick and Harry you come across. Sex sounds like something you do just for the sake of satisfying your lust. Like a one night stand.


Making love is a wonderful act between 2 people in love and its God's way of recreating life. I think humans are the only animals with enough creativity to commercialize sex. It is instinctive and part of nature. There's actually nothing wrong with it. Nowadays when you hear people use the word 'sex' you automatically picture porno. From there you think about other stuff like masturbation. Correct?


Everyone (hopefully everyone) will one day experience it. I bet you're wondering, if it is a natural act, why then are there so many objections from parents and why is so taboo?


Actually I think adults are not so worried about their children having sex but rather the fear of them making the wrong choice and the inability to face the consequences that it brings. I may be wrong. I'm not a parent. I would like a mom or a dad to correct me if I'm wrong. Teenagers however, don't think much. Well a lot of teenagers never think of the consequences before doing anything. Hence, teenagers are stupid. There are some who are especially brainless and they are those who think they can be independent and away from their parents. Teenagers are actually bound to their parents. In terms of income/allowance, shelter, education, etc. I think I'm running from the point. I'll blog about teenage independence another time.


Then again I don't solely blame teenagers for being curious about this physical passion because the urge can many times be overwhelming to teenagers going through puberty and with the easy access to pornography on the Internet and on the street corners. Puberty is actually quite hard to handle. You have teenagers with testosterone and progesterone exploding out of their ears. Of course I don't mean that in literacy.


I always believe that making love has great consequences and a person should be mature mentally before indulging in it. Most parents fear unwanted pregnancy and diseases, particularly AIDS that could destroy their child's life due to just a few moments of pleasure and the worst part of it is that the male (in most cases) are not willing to take responsibility for nor are their stable enough to admit to the pregnancy.


Here's some cold hard facts to you girls. It's not pleasing to the ears, but it's reality. Stop dreaming. A guy will say whatever you want to hear just to have sex with you and unlike girls, guys can have sex with anybody without any emotional attachment. This means that they will say they love and care for you (what women likes to hear most) and you consenting to sex is the proof of your love for him. Crap. If he really loves you, he will never force you to have sex. He wouldn't even think of hurting you that way. On top of that, remember that to a guy, getting a girl's virginity is like a trophy or an achievement. It's gives him something to brag about.


So think it through twice if not a hundred times before you give yourself up to a guy. I hope you'd instill a fear of damage. It's good deterrence.


If you really are that desperate to be loved physically then there's really no one who can stop you except yourself. It's not so much of what age you lose your virginity. It's who you lose it to.


Don't get me wrong. I'm strong on my grounds when I say I oppose pre-marital sex.